Thanksgiving & fødselsdag fester.
The last few days have be busy but so much fun. On Thursday Anna, Mackenzie, and I cooked another big Thanksgiving meal and this time it was for my kitchen mates. It was nice having a smaller group than our other Thanksgiving party (13 people rather than 22) and I really enjoyed sharing the evening with my kitchen mates who I am so thankful to be living with at this awesome kollegium. Most of them have had Thanksgiving with other exchange students in the past but for a few it was their first time and they really enjoyed it! My hall mate Mamdouh took the “father role” and carved the turkey (Sir Timothy Higgings III) and Tobias gave a very traditional and hilarious Thanksgiving speech before dinner. Everyone was quite involved and it was such a good night!
Saturday night my friends Henrik and I threw a birthday party for the two of us (mine just past and his is coming up). Together our ages add up to 45 so we threw a “midlife crisis party” at his kitchen. It was a nice night with lots and lots of cake and random party crashing at the different julefrokoster happening in other kitchens around Tietgen. At one point some julefrokost group crashed our party in a conga line singing Danish Christmas carols, so naturally we joined and crashed some the other parties!
Well, it is practically December so it is time for me to FREAK OUT. I am just not ready for my time here to be over. I am in love with this city/country/people, living in a great atmosphere with a bunch of really fantastic and interesting people, studying at a great school in the middle of the city, hanging out with an amazing group of people, and learning so much every single day from the all of these new people and new experiences. I am thrilled to be going home in time for the holidays to see my family and friends but that is at constant battle with my yearning to continue my life here. I am both grateful and resentful for the fact that I have adapted to life here so completely… it has made for a great experience but a difficult departure. The worst part right now is that I have two Danish exams coming up, an oral exam requiring I have 1200 pages of literature read by December 18, and a research paper that I still need to do the research for due Dec. 22 (the day I leave). Basically, I will be working my butt off for most of my last three weeks in Copenhagen… and somewhere in all that I need to figure out how I am going to pack up all my stuff and say goodbye to this country. Luckily I will be giving myself a break this coming weekend when my friend Diya comes for a visit (which I am SO excited about).
So, after all this lamenting about having to leave so soon (seriously… how did it come to be December so quickly???) it is clear that I need to find a way to return sometime in the near future. I would really like to try moving back to Europe, not just visiting. The Danes have really inspired me to take advantage of my time while I am young. Students here usually take a year or two off before begining univeristy or in between degrees to travel or work or just experience something. From what I notice, they all really benefit from it a lot. The Danes I study with are much more mature (usually older) and have a lot of interesting life experience. It really makes you take a step back and reevaluate the typical U.S. way of graduating high school, going straight to uni, and getting a job as fast as you possibly can. My plans have always been about going straigh from one step to the next, but I am really inspired by the Danes to take another look at how I really want to do it.





